Introduction
So you’ve read about Sacred Sexuality and you’re intrigued… but maybe a little stuck.
“Do I really have to sit still for 20 minutes and meditate?”
“What if my partner loses the urge – it doesn’t come around too often these days?”
“How do I ‘worship’ pleasure when my to-do list is screaming, and my sciatica is playing up?”
Relax. Spiritual sex isn’t about perfection—it’s about curiosity. Here’s your no-fluff, high-sensuality playbook to bridge the gap between “idea” and “oh-my-god-this-changes-everything.” Also, make it special – like an anniversary meal. Imagine 20 ‘special’ nights a year!
1. The 3-Minute Sacred Sex Cheat Sheet (Practical)
For when you want depth now:
⚡ Eye-Gazing Sprint
- 60 seconds: Sync breaths (inhale together, exhale together).
- 60 seconds: Trace their lips with your thumb or forefinger (no kissing yet).
- 60 seconds: Whisper “I feel you” while touching their heartbeat.
Why it works: Mini-rituals rewire your brain for presence fast.
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2. Sacred Sex Myths—Busted (Because Misconceptions Kill Moods)
MYTH #1: “You must be 100% present or it doesn’t count.”
TRUTH: Even noticing one distracted thought (“Did I pay the electric bill?”) and gently returning to sensation is sacred practice.
MYTH #2: “Slow sex = boring sex.”
TRUTH: Slowing down reveals new erogenous zones. Try this: “Move so slowly your partner begs you to speed up… then wait 3 more breaths.”
MYTH #3: “Sacred = Serious.”
TRUTH: Giggling when your stomach gurgles mid-eye-gaze is spiritual. Playfulness is prayer too.
→ Need proof? Read how Tantric Massage turns laughter into foreplay.
MYTH: “Slow = boring.”
TRUTH: Slow is edging—it’s the difference between chugging wine and savoring each note.
→ Read the full Sacred Sexuality guide for why this works.
3. Sensory Upgrades (Because God Is in the Details) (Erotic Charge)
Swap:
- “Kiss their neck” → “Let your lips linger like the last sip of a perfect wine.”
- “Touch their inner thigh” → “Map their skin like it’s the first time—every freckle a constellation, every bump a slow hill climb.”
Your homework: Next time you touch, name the sensation in your mind (warm, prickling, liquid). Learn to take your time and enjoy the sensations
4. “I Tried It For You” (A Confession)
The first time I tried sacred sex… I hated it.
- What happened: My partner and I attempted Yab-Yum. I got crampy. He giggled. We gave up and ordered pizza.
- What changed: We practiced outside the bedroom (eye-gazing while washing dishes, breathwork in traffic).
Moral: Start sloppy. Stay playful.
“Okay, But How Do I Really Make This Stick?”
Theory is sexy, but embodiment is everything.
If you want:
- Custom rituals for your unique desire language…
- A shame-free space to ask “Is this normal?!”…
- Accountability to actually practice (not just fantasize)…
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